"How to Get Rich - Even on a Poor Man’s Budget"

I get a lot of email from people who are hanging on by a thread. I mean desperate people. They’re worried about food, keeping their electricity on and keeping a roof over their heads. Despite the fact that economists are saying: “The Recession is Over” too many people are still struggling -and even those who aren’t are worried.

If this describes someone you know & love, (or you’re kind of worried yourself) let me tell you what I’d tell my own sister, brother or best friend.  Keep in mind, I’m no financial counselor or expert, I’m no theologian or minister either. I’m just an ordinary working mom with 4 kids who has learned how to make a dollar (and how to keep one too.) 

So if you’re trying to dig yourself out of a hole, or want to get ahead, these are some of the best ways I know to have and keep money.

1.    Count your Blessings - Thank God for the blessings you already have. Even though it’s tempting to feel “less thankful” when you’re at rock bottom, that’s when you need a thankful heart most. Here’s why: when you fix your mind on things that are lovely, good, noble, just, true, excellent and praiseworthy it puts you in a frame of mind to solve problems. And frankly, if you’re broke and it’s bothering you; solving the problem is more important than allowing yourself to be consumed by worry and fear. When you deliberately think of (and name) the wonderful things that God has done for you, you’ll notice a gradual, more productive and positive shift in your thinking.  Wasting your energy dwelling on what’s wrong will make you neither richer nor happier. Instead, praise the Lord for what’s right. And ask God to give you hope for your future. Take control of your thoughts and focus on your blessings. Count them, name them and thank the Lord for them.

2.    Save – No matter how small the amount. Get in the habit of keeping aside some money you simply will not spend. What makes or breaks you is whether you will choose to discipline yourself during those times when you’ve “got the money for” small non-necessities. Instead of buying them, temporarily save that money to build up an emergency fund. Gut Check: if you found a twenty dollar bill right now; what would you do with it?  If you’d probably get takeout, use it for gas or buy some groceries; then with all due respect, your tendency to spend whatever you have (or even find) is keeping you broke. For now, steel yourself to tuck money away. The small choices you make when you’ve got a few dollars at your disposal directly impact how much money you’ll have when emergencies arise. (And oh, emergencies will arise.) So temporarily deny yourself non-necessities until you build up some cash to weather unexpected expenses. This is an all-important secret to breaking the poverty cycle. Practice the art of having money in the bank that you will not spend, and the art of having money in your pocket that you won’t spend either. 

3.    Get Healthy – Do whatever is within your control to be as healthy as you can be. I understand that lack of time, money or physical limitations leave a lot of people hard-pressed to work out or eat right on a regular basis. But keep this in mind, if you end up hospitalized, or have to take time off work for illness or disability, it will cost you a small fortune. Start taking the stairs instead of elevators, park the car further away, when you find yourself bored at home, take a quick walk around your neighborhood. Basically, make it your business to move around as much as you are able. Second, eat like your life depends on it. (And it does, you know) I personally understand how difficult this is; but if you plan on having more money; do what you can to be as well as you can be.       

4.    Quit Smoking*- From a pure dollars and cents perspective, the biggest expense isn’t even the cost of the cigarettes. Add in: higher rates for life insurance, higher rates for health insurance, lower resale value for your home or car, lost money from using more sick time, and emerging employment restrictions and smoking wastes more of your money than it’s worth.  If you really want to live like you’re rich (even on a poor girl’s income) then suffer through the withdrawal, quit smoking and steer clear of situations that tempt you to smoke again.

5.    Quit Drinking**- And I say this with the greatest sensitivity possible.  Drinking alcohol is an expensive way to quench thirst and it’s an expensive way to relax. Aside from the higher cost of an alcoholic drink, there is the added expense of: reduced productivity, health implications, relational problems and all the associated problems that can arise from driving somewhere after a drink or two. Drinking alcohol won’t make you richer.

6.    Buy Used – And cars are just the beginning! Furniture, kitchen supplies etcetera are so much more affordable when you buy used. Always start by checking out ebay.com and Craigslist.com before you make a purchase. 

7.    Cook Dinner - People who tend to have money see takeout and eating at a restaurant as a periodic treat; not a vital part of nutritional sustenance.  Do the math: for $30 you could get a pretty good meal at a restaurant or maybe Chinese takeout for your family. Or for that same $30 you could feed your entire family for a WEEK with Angelfood Ministries!  

8.    Eat Angel Food - This will save you so much money. And it will safeguard against the fear of running out of food before your next paycheck. To make things easier, Angelfood Ministries now has online ordering and operates in most States.  There are no income restrictions, so even if your income is pretty high, you can still use them. Their “Signature Food Box” has at LEAST $65 worth of restaurant-quality food for $30. (They also accept food stamps.) Imagine how much money you will save if you start feeding your entire family for just $4.30 per day! http://www.angelfoodministries.com

9.    Save leftovers for lunches - When you are putting away your leftovers from dinner, put them directly into little lunch-sized containers. Then it’ll be easy to pack a lunch. Just grab a container, add a water bottle and a piece of fruit. Not even school lunches or cheap fast-food restaurants will save you as much cas packing your leftovers for lunch. Furthermore, it’ll taste better and help your whole family maintain better health and weight.

10.  Clip Grocery Coupons - Even if you get the newspaper, (and especially if you don’t) check out the free printable grocery coupons online. 

11.  Get Your House in Order - In order to get rich, you’ll need to know exactly much income you have coming in versus expenses going out. If you frequently run out of money, then it’s safe to say you are running at a deficit. Your next step is to know how much of a deficit. We use this budgeting spreadsheet: http://www.crown.org/pamphlets/pdfs/FamilyBudgeting.pdf When it comes to knowing your income versus expenses, ignorance IS NOT bliss. It just leaves you with “More week left at the end of your money.” So figure out the exact amount you need to make ends meet. Then you have two options: increase your income and/or reduce your expenses. (I recommend you make an effort to do both.) But it’s almost always easier to save a dollar than to make one. 

12.  Quit Using Credit Cards - It’s been said over and over again. But they are such a waste of money. Instead of helping you get out of a hole; they are a shovel that digs you in deeper.  If you want to have more money, absolutely stop buying things on credit. It’s the interest and impulse purchasing that just about kills you. It’s nearly impossible to save up a sizable amount of money if a high percent of your money is going to interest for things you didn’t even need in the first place.  I don’t care what the experts say about building a credit history, I’ve found cutting up and canceling credit cards and using debit cards or cash to be the best way to build up savings.

13.  Never buy lottery tickets. Never -  It’s called the “Poor man’s tax” for a reason. The people who tend to have (and keep) their money just don’t play the lotto. They don’t play games with a 99.999% chance of losing their money. 

14.  Avoid check cashing places or payday loans - Avoid them like the plague. Being impatient or just failing to plan for the future wastes so much money! Payday loan/Check-Cashing/Pawnshop businesses make a fortune off people who live paycheck to paycheck. It’s people who don’t (or won’t) plan ahead for emergencies  who keep them in business. Why make them rich? Instead, make yourself richer by avoiding fast-cash or rapid refund places.

15.  Get rid of your land line or get rid of your cell phone- Do you actually need both?

16.  Get rid of cable - You can watch most shows online for free nowadays. (And with fewer commercials.) Try http://www.hulu.com or the official network websites for the shows you like.

17.  Move to a Lower Cost of Living Area - When you fill in your budget, if your housing costs, state and local taxes take up the majority of your income, then it’s time to do some soul-searching and seriously consider making a move. There are places in this country that simply cost more to live in than they are worth. (You might be in one of them.) This tool is pretty eye opening in revealing the cost of living in one place versus another:  http://cgi.money.cnn.com/tools/costofliving/costofliving.html

18.  Start Giving - I know it sounds counterproductive to build wealth by giving any of your money away - especially when you are so close to the poorhouse yourself. But it’s one of the wisest things you can do. Here’s why, if you continue to go about your life focused on solving your own problems; you will lose perspective. Without it, two things happen: you risk falling short of being a blessing to people you could actually help. The other is you risk becoming so consumed with yourself that you fail to see bigger picture solutions -even to your own problems. Added bonus, God has promised to open His storehouse for you when you give. (It’s the only place in the Bible where He invites you to test Him.) “Navel gazing” or failing to see past the tip of your nose doesn’t help you, nor does it help anyone else.

19.  Watch the way you drive. You can increase your gas mileage 25% -in the car you’re already driving by using a few easy hypermiling tips and tricks. http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/SavingandDebt/SaveonaCar/Get50MpgInYourOwnCar.aspx?page=2’ These tips can reduce the amount of money you spend on gas.

20.  Do not break the law- No, Seriously -It takes up valuable time, energy and money when you are even suspected of breaking any kind of law.  Even if you end up “winning” you still lose the time, energy and money it took to defend yourself. Don’t put yourself in situations where you even hang around people who tend to break (or skirt) the law. If you’ve got hopes, dreams and wishes for a future that don’t include things like jail time or losing your license, then this tip is key. Don’t break the law - and don’t even hang around people who do.

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21.  Return past purchases - Look around your home for things you’ve bought that you could live without. Then look for the receipts and take them back. Home Improvement supplies in particular can give you a substantial infusion of cash. Even if you can’t find the receipt, many stores will still give you store credit. Look at everything you currently own with an eye for it’s return potential.

22.  List stuff you can’t return on Ebay, Amazon or Craigslist - Take a few pictures of your items with your cell phone camera (or use a digital camera if it’s handy) and upload them with a brief description onto all three of these sites. Set the prices lower than comparable listings, and include a “Buy it Now” option.

23.  Sell your blood plasma - You can earn up to $50 per week. Do a quick search online to find out where the nearest paid plasma donation sites are in your area. Google:  “plasma+donation+[your area]” Then check out the websites or call them for more details. On your first visit, expect to fill out a tremendous amount of paper work, and bring as much of your ID and medical information as you have. If you pass their criteria, it should take about an hour to donate your plasma and at the end you will be paid either in cash or with a rechargeable debit card. It’s not the most glamorous thing to do, but it is a way to be a blessing to others by providing lifesaving, desperately needed plasma while earning a few dollars at the same time.

24.  Seek emergency assistance- Google “emergency+assistance+programs+[Your State]”  there may be state and local programs you know nothing about that help people in situations like yours. Also contact local churches, explaining your situation asking them to pray for you and whether they are set up to provide emergency assistance.

HEADS UP!!!!!

Did you notice I only listed four tips listed that generate fast-money? Did you notice that I put them last? If the main thing on your mind right now is “How can I get my hands on some fast-money - the sooner, the better?” Then this last tip is especially for you:

25.  If you don’t change the things you do when you HAVE a few dollars, all too soon, you will be broke again and another crisis will hit.  (But you’ll have already used up the tips that bailed you out the last time and you’ll be stuck.) It is the first 20 tips that have the potential to change your future for the better. Do yourself a favor and start solving more than just your immediate crisis. Make changes to how you spend, budget and save that will get you rich -even on a poor man’s budget!

Sources:

*Smoking Costs: http://www.smartmoney.com/spending/deals/get-rich-quit-smoking-20596/

**Drinking Costs:http://meriter.staywellsolutionsonline.com/interactivetools/calculators/41,CostOfDrinkingCalc